10 Newborn Health Red Flags Every Parent Should Know and Act On Immediately

5. Excessive, Inconsolable Crying

The Problem

All babies cry—it’s one of the few ways they can communicate discomfort, hunger, or the need for a diaper change. However, excessive or inconsolable crying that continues despite your best efforts at soothing can be a sign of an underlying issue. It might indicate gastrointestinal discomfort, such as infant colic or reflux, or another medical concern that’s causing pain.

A key measure is whether the crying stops or lessens with cuddling and comfort. If it does not get better with any effort, or if the baby seems to be in distress—arching their back, tensing up, or turning red in the face—it’s time to look closer. While colic is often described as “crying for more than three hours a day, at least three days a week, for three weeks or more,” acute excessive crying can occasionally signal something more serious.

The Solution

1. Check the Basics: Is your baby hungry, wet, cold, or hot? Attend to these basic needs first. Offer small, frequent feeds if hunger might be the issue.
2. Swaddle and Soothe: Many newborns feel comforted when swaddled. A gentle back rub or rocking motion can sometimes help them relax. White noise or soft music may also work wonders.
3. Observe for Other Signs: Look for fever, rashes, or changes in bowel or bladder habits that might accompany the crying. Any additional symptom might point to an infection or medical condition.
4. Take a Break: Babies can sense your stress. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, place your baby in a safe spot—like a crib—and take a short breather. Come back calmer and try again.
5. Consult Your Pediatrician: If crying remains relentless despite feeding, changing, and comforting, or if your gut feeling says something is off, it’s wise to seek medical advice. Early detection of issues like ear infections or food intolerances can make a big difference.

Your nurturing touch and instincts are powerful, but when crying escalates beyond normal fussiness, it’s worth getting professional input.